A dream of an impending marriage yet to happen with me as the happenstance groom to a girl whose name is never mentioned and whose face is never seen, yet is to be married on that day and in that time. With the colors chosen of Orange and White, so apparent throughout this dream session I wondered.
Yet throughout this session, the happenstance groom does not seem to be truly ready to make the commitment and continually try and delay it finding and deciding to constantly procrastinate even though everyone who is close are expecting it to be great and constantly remind this happenstance groom how excited they are about this marriage and doing all they can to hurry it along, all the while the groom to be, concerned about it. Not really ready for a commitment while everyone else is seeing green I find myself at Yellow getting ready to stop the entire charade. Strangely this dream seemed so real yet it was only a dream.
Dream analysis as a means to relay messages, through the images, or the symbols presented in the dream. It is certainly hard to say but I wondered last night, how and why I have not traveled, internationally in so many years even though I had said many times I would make the trip yet never have. Have not ever saved enough money to go and do it because the income was previously based on sweat equity, trading time for dollars. For that green paper, that we are told is the only currency even if it is worth less then the tree it was cut from.
Really there is more to this session, as it started as a dream but through further thought and analysis I realized there was more to it then even that. Like why I am here in this same place, where I have long been, without alot of money and many dreams, the two put together become a much clearer picture. That it is always about this green paper, based on nothing, said to be worth something according to the numbers on it. Even though in it’s simplest form all it consists of is printing on paper. This paper seens as currency, for all debts public and private. This paper you need alot of to do anything, to travel to explore to experience things paid public or private debt. A paper that is on a downward spiral not expected to recover anytime real soon to be lost in it’s own abyss.
Perhaps that is exactly the point, that such a wedding of two people is appropiately only a dream with an unknown bride simply because, rather then think for yourself, instead you subscribe to a flawed tradition, because that is the way it is always done so why change?
Well why not make a difference, there have been more then a few that I have known personally, who are quite happy with a long term relationship as boyfriend and girlfriend, in fact they even have kids from him, yet would not even think of marrying them simply because it is easier to keep doing the same while setting the precedent for these same children to follow suite, as new ideas are formulated of what a relationship should be, not exactly as it is said to be . How many single mothers do you know? Perhaps as only the logical result of being raised by the same. Experienced life in a single parent household experiencing the hardships and learning the lessons through the challenges resulting in a survival of fittest attitude to do the best they can however they can. The idea of marriage being so definite only in a dream form seems to be appropiate and quite accurate in relation to the society of today, not so much of yesterday which in itself fading away as people pass on, late in their years, that will be forgotten, will fade away just as they do.
What will be left? Only new ideas, marriage clearly becoming only a dream, as new ideas see it as a failed organization, a false idea, why get married at all when you can just as easily have a long term relationship with a boyfriend or girlfriend, have kids, be together. The only difference the lack of a ring on your finger, without offering up 50% of what you own to another through the false union of two people, that really will often end in divorce after all.
The society of today has different views and ideas about relationships and marriage and in that what precedent will be set from this point forward? I leave that up to you to decide, as we each have an opportunity to do whatever it is we subscribe to for better or worst till death do you part.